How to remember and find that everything does happen for a reason
When it comes to the good things in life we always say because of hard work and determination. Then, when it comes to the bad things in life, it was just meant to be. Why is there such a double standard? Everyone happens, and it happens for a reason. There are so many things that will determine your life and your destination.
One of those reasons is pre-destination. There are a lot of people who have a religion or just believe that we are all effects from pre-destination. From the moment we are born, our lives are planned to every detail. We are born with a pre-destination that states how lives will be and where we will end up. Pre-destination has been an ancient way of thinking. For centuries, people believed that it didn’t matter about the little things that happened in our lives because we had a destiny and you can’t avoid destiny. That’s one reason why things happen.
As for the Christian way, things happen for a divine reason. There are times when God takes a life because you were pure and ready for heaven. Bad things happen to good people because God allowed it to happen. God allowed it to happen because the person was ready. They were as good as they would ever be and ready to go to his kingdom. Then they claim that bad things happen to bad people because of karma. In the bible, you are to treat your peers as you would like to be treated, and if not, then you’ll get it back three times. So bad things happen because of the old saying, “What goes around comes around.”
As for the true reason for why things happen, you’ll never know. The only way that you can have comfort in the fact those things happen for a reason is if you have a religion or belief. If you have a religion you can find comfort in your beliefs, but it’s so hard to believe that there was a reason why bad things happen to good people.
It’s so hard to blame someone, especially, God for something like that. It’s hard to believe that God would allow you to feel so much pain in the world, but there is a reason. With the pain, comes to the happiness. You have to go through pain to appreciate what you have. To appreciate who you are and what you have experienced, you have to have some sorrow. The hard times is what brings people closer, and it also, brings you to recognize the truth and honesty.
You may say that you hate someone and that you wish you never knew them, but the moment they are gone, you sit and cry. You had to loose what you had to realize what you had. When it comes to a lesson, people believe that God teaches value lessons, but there is no lesson. There is just a time for some and a time for others. God is a merciful God and He doesn’t do things for spite. Don’t blame God for things that happen, but reflect on the fact that he has a plan. You may not understand the plan, but there is a plan.
There is no excuse that you should use to find comfort. There is no way that you will ever understand why things happen, but you should know that one day you’ll know why. You will find comfort in your religion and belief, as well as, the support of those around you. Everything happens for a reason; however, you may never know the reasoning behind anything.