How to Learn to love even if you feel you never can
How do you know that you are in love or even like someone? You may find that the object of your affection is opposite of what you look for and may not be that attractive compared to Brad Pit (but most aren’t). However, you still may find yourself wanting to spend time with them and fall in love. The only thing is when you fall in love, you don’t want to love for love. You want to love because you are in love. Love can begin with the oddest circumstances and bloom into a lasting and passionate romance.
What is love? You know, love is the most awkward word to define. By a dictionary, you will find that it is a “profound feeling of affection and attraction”. However, what is it? Love can not be described because it is different for everyone, but you know when you are in love. You feel a deep passion for them. You miss them every time they leave. You have an emotional, romantic, and desire to be with them as a supporter, as a friend, and as a lover. It can be complex. Love is painful and love and pleasurable. Love is everything rolled into one word. You seem to lose all sense of time and logic when you are in love. When it comes to love and logic, the heart always wins.
IF you think that you are in love, you need to do all you can to save that feeling. You need to proceed in the relationship with caution. You may have been hurt before, or you may never have felt this before and it’s something that you need to be cautious. Although love is never a guarantee, you can love and trust someone who deserves it and is worthy of your love. You should talk to your interest and tell them how you feel and how you would like to pursue the relationship, but with hopes that your feelings will be taken inconsideration of. Everyone hurts someone that they love deeply once or twice.
Even the most solid relationships have rocky times, but the key is to finding a mutual understanding to help preserve your feelings. Even if the relationship ends, you can always think about how true the love was and that it was a miracle for you to truly find love. Many people go through out their entire lives without finding true love. You should consider yourself lucky.
When it comes to love, you have ot start off slowly. Don’t rush things! You have all the time in the world and love always seems to stop time. Don’t rush your love or relationship into serious matters like marriage or even an engagement. It will happen with time. Don’t rush into things because you need to know that you feel is love and not lust. If you find yourself completely in awe before you even have relations then you are most likely in love, but if the first thing you want to do is have sex, then your in lust. There is no love in lust, but you can find a healthy sexual relationship in love. Some times it can be confusing, but you know when you are in love.
 If you would do anything for someone, even lay your life on the line for him or her, you’re in love. If you are a tough guy and you find a woman who can bring you to your knees or cry, then you’re in love. When you are willing to go the extra mile for them, you’re in love. Everyone can love and some will love, but you may end up finding love in the last place you would think.